Sunday Dec 16, 2007

Reform Reflections: Denial, Dismissal and Defensiveness

Posted by Rabbi Michael Marmur
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The recently-issued Annual Report by the Association of Civil Rights makes grim reading. In the section on racism in Israeli society, it notes that there has been a steep rise in expressions of hatred by Jewish Israelis towards Arabs. 2006 saw a 26% increase in the number of racial incidents directed against Arabs; the intensity of feelings of hatred towards Arabs has almost doubled. Over half of the Jewish Israelis polled said they would not live in the same building with Arabs, that they opposed the inclusion of Arab parties in the government, that they approve of plans to encourage Arab emigration, and so on. The report also talks about the systematic degradation of Israeli Arab citizens when they want to get on an airplane at Ben Gurion Airport. Most of those interviewed thought that Arabs smell, and are unclean.

In Israel, this report has been met by what might be described as a 3-D response. I don't mean to suggest by this that we have all decided to engage in a three-dimensional soul-searching treatment of the weighty and distressing evidence before us. Rather, the three Ds we prefer to employ are Denial, Dismissal and Defensiveness. We deny the veracity of the evidence, suggesting that whoever could claim that such views abound in Israeli society must be a self-hating traitor. We dismiss the data – clearly those interviewed were not representative of most people, or they were joking when they answered the questions. That so-called increase in incidents, we say, it is just our Arab neighbors being over-sensitive over nothing.

And we defend ourselves, using the usual apologetic tools. What do you expect, we ask with a shrug of the shoulders, with missiles raining down on Sderot and the memory of the Lebanon War still fresh in our minds (at this stage in the conversation, we are very upset if it is pointed out that a disproportionate number of Israeli victims in the last war were Arabs). The typical next argument goes like this: where are all these bleeding-heart liberals when Jewish blood is shed, and when Arab leaders and opinion-makers say beastly things about the Jews?  Then we say: by engaging in this kind of self-reproach we are lending succor to our enemies. In these and other ways, we try to put the figures into a context, a perspective.

There have been 3-D responses around ever since the Bible began, and they are not likely to disappear in a hurry. The essence of Judaism, at least in my understanding, has always been an urgent and insistent call to overcome the three Ds, and stare uncomfortable realities in the face. I believe that we are commanded to face up to our diseases and shortcomings. If we do not replace those three Ds with a genuine three-dimensional view, we will lose all vision and all insight.

In January 1963, some 45 years ago, Abraham Joshua Heschel addressed a conference on Religion and Race. The most immediate issue was the struggle for Civil Rights among African Americans, but Heschel was at pains to point out that he was referring to "the plight of all individuals belonging to a racial, religious, ethnic, or cultural minority." Listen for a moment to Heschel's voice, before activating the typical 3-D response:

"Let us dodge no issues. Let us yield no inch to bigotry, let us make no compromise of callousness."

"Let us cease to be apologetic, cautious, timid. Racial tension and strife is both sin and punishment…"

"…an honest estimation of our society will disclose: Some are guilty, but all are responsible. If we admit that the individual is in some measure conditioned or affected by the public climate of opinion, an individual's crime discloses society's corruption. In a community not indifferent to suffering, uncompromisingly impatient with cruelty and falsehood, racial discrimination would be infrequent rather than common."

"God seeks out him who is pursued (Ecclesiastes 3:15), even if the pursuer is righteous and the pursued is wicked, because man's condition is God's concern. To discriminate against man is to despise what God demands."

It is my belief that the core teaching of Judaism is of the common humanity of all, even as it focuses in on the specificities of the Jewish condition. It is my belief that whoever wraps their own bigotry up in a prayer shawl and invokes the name of Jewish tradition to lend luster to their own hatred, commits a Hilul Hashem, a desecration of the Divine Name.

What’s the Jewish thing to do in the wake of this disturbing report about rampant racism in our society? We have to face up, to fess up, and to get to work. Denial, dismissal and defensiveness will only leave us groping in the dark.

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1  |  Wendkos, Sunday Dec 16, 2007
This is contributing to the disunification and lack of resolve on the part of Reform Jews to come to grips with the reality that Arabs hate Jews and if Jacob does not defeat Esau we're goners
2  |  baruch, Sunday Dec 16, 2007
You should point out that many many Israeli Arabs actively act against their country and support terrorism. You should point out the the Arab MKs are among the most venomous public figures calling for the destruction of Israel and supporting the efforts of Arab countries to achieve that goal. You should point out that many Israeli Arabs have been involved in palestinian terror attacks on Israel. Then you may ask why there is an increasing dislike and distrust of Arabs among the general Jewish Israeli public. In comparison look at the German and Japanese Americans who made every effort at the beginning of WWII to convince the authorities that they were loyal Americans who would do anything in support of America their country. Compare with Israeli Arabs who support regimes and movements calling for the destruction of Israel. After considering all of that then ask how Jewish Israelis feel about Israeli Arabs.
3  |  kddobay, Sunday Dec 16, 2007
the most devestating reality, which has tested my faith, is that in all of history, mankind does not learn, or change, or grow...at least, not collectively. the refusal to take responsibility ON ALL SIDES is leading this world into total devestation, out of which only a remnant will survive...what is the point of proving who is "LEAST WRONG" when we are committing suicide? at the moment of death, the only thing that matters is faith, repentance, recognition of human powerlessness...there is no room for hatred. why doesn't mankind wake up? it is a mystery, and i am sorry to say i give up...i can only do what i can with what is in front of me...and i pray to G-d each day to give me the grace to love and not to hate, to trust, and not to fear...may He have mercy on us all...
4  |  abe USA, Monday Dec 17, 2007
Ever notice how Reformists find evil in everything that Israel does, just as liberals in the US see the US as an essentially evil country. No surprise - Reformists are Liberals. Indeed, at what passes as their Bar Motzvot, they pledge allegiance to the Democratic Party and become life-long liberals. How can you recognize them? They are fighting for abortion, gay rights, and Palestine. They are fighting against Judaism, Christianity, the US and Israel.
5  |  yosef, Jerusalem, Monday Dec 17, 2007
"we are very upset if it is pointed out that a disproportionate number of Israeli victims in the last war were Arabs" I hope you weren't upset if I point our that a disproportionate number of victims in WWII were the German and Japanese. What do these statistics mean? NOTHING! Has it ever crossed your mind that the reason why Israelis are so anti-Arab is because they can't go into any public area without a guard being there to check bags to make sure there are no bombs!!
6  |  Olli, Germany, Monday Dec 17, 2007
probably Israelis need both: Not to give up the fight against Terror. Not to be naive against the attitude of the arab enemys - and nevertheless work on their own attitude. If you hate your enemy as much as he hates you - where is the difference between him an you? If the almighty does not love the arabs too, why did he create them? If you are part of the "elected" people - how much higher moral standards should you lay on yourselfs? in great sympathy to the Jewish people Greetings from germany
7  |  Shalom, NJ, Tuesday Dec 18, 2007
Dear Rabbi Marmur, Please note what King David wrote in Psalm 97:10: "You who love the L-rd, hate evil; He watches the souls of His pious ones, He rescues them from the hands of the wicked." I'm sure that you recognize it from the Kabbalat Shabbat tefilah. While not every Arab is evil, let's not ignore the fact that a great many of them are. Let's also remember G-d's command in Bamidbar (Numbers) 33:55-56: "But if you do not drive out the inhabitants of the Land from before you, then those whom you leave over will be as spikes in your eyes and thorns in your sides, and they will harass you in the land in which you settle. And it will be that what I had intended to do to them, I will do to you." While we will agree that we cannot extrapolate from this specific command given to the Jews some 3000 years ago that it necessarily applies to us today, when we are without prophets, wouldn't you agree that it certainly gives us a strong message? Perhaps even as strong as the one that Heschel gave? Shalom
8  |  Avrohom - Israel, Tuesday Dec 18, 2007
Shaul HaMelech spared Gog?s life for one night. He was punished for it. He lost the kingship because of it. It was a chillul Hashem he spared Gog?s life, even for one night. So while Torah speaks about the tzelem Elokim of all of mankind, there are also conditions that Torah directs us to assess each person or each group of people individually, and act appropriately, as Torah hashkofot dictates. In Torah, we do not hate others. We do not assess others inappropriately based on personal bias or racial issues, or even religious issues. We assess others, Jews and non-Jews, based on halachot. Sometime we are required to judge others positively even when it would be easy to conclude someone is not deserving of the benefit of the doubt. Other times we are commanded to not judge someone favorably because they are not fit for the benefit of the doubt. When we adhere to Torah, it is never, ever, a chillul Hashem. One who wraps themselves up in their prayer shawl and espouses non-Torah ideas and invokes the name of our Torah and Jewish tradition in a manner that is against Torah causes a chillul Hashem. Racism is wrong. Hatred is wrong. Follow halacha, period. It requires the power of discerning to know when someone is considered ?achim? and when someone is not. It requires the power of discerning to know when someone is accorded the benefit of the doubt, and when not. It does not require much power of discerning to know racism and hatred is wrong. If the author intends to group together both following halachot regarding assessing others and/or giving them the benefit of the doubt, along with his railing against racism and hatred, he is incorrect. Halachot is not based on I?m Ok You?re OK principles. Halachot are based on Torah. And in Torah, sometimes I am OK and sometimes I am not OK. Sometimes you are OK and sometimes you are not OK. Everyone is a tzelem Elokim. And everyone deserves to be related to in the manner Torah teaches through halachot. It is difficult to understand the author?s use of the phrase, ?whoever wraps their own bigotry up in a prayer shawl?. One must discern between halachot of Torah, and avairot such as hatred and racism. Shaul HaMelech showed apparent kindness and was wrong in doing so.
9  |  Al Strap, Chicago, IL, USA, Sunday Dec 23, 2007
"Reform Votes Against United Jerusalem Statement" of the Conference of Presidents of Major American Jewish Organizations is a headline now appearing elsewhere. Not only is Reform anti-Torah and anti-Halachah, it is also anti-Jerusalem!
10  |  William, NJ, Sunday Dec 23, 2007
May I ask, what is the connection between this topic and Judaism? Reform Judaism and Conservative Judaism do not have a principle to practice racism or (baseless) hatred. The Torah certainly does not.
11  |  matt brooklyn, Tuesday Dec 25, 2007
I think Jews need to worry about jews and jewish pride. when large numbersof jewish women wont date jewish men r say well i can date non jewish men because my baby will be jewish ..there is something wrong. jewish pride first needs to be put first. jewish women ...this is an excuse for your own deire to escape your shame of being jewish....matt
12  |  janine, Tuesday Jan 01, 2008
What an interesting take on this.
13  |  Josef,On,Canada, Monday Jan 28, 2008
What amazes me about this survey is that after 40 years of continuous attacks against Israel and its people the level of intolerance is not much higher. I am not an apologizer for our people; there is nothing to apologize or be ashamed about. If the enemy wore uniforms, surely people would not generalize; today's terrorist, could be yesterday's neighbour. Once the terrorist acts stop, and 40 years of peace go by, if the surveys show the same results, I will eat my words.
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