Sunday May 31, 2009

More Sundays, less stress

Posted by Seth Mandell
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I have lived most of my adult life in Israel and there are really only two things I miss about the American Diaspora: One is Tropicana orange juice - can someone please tell me why we can't get a good, sweet half gallon of the stuff at a reasonable price? After all they grow the oranges right here - and the other is Sunday. 

I was reminded of this last night when, while leafing through an old copy (May 13th) of The Jerusalem Post, I ran across an article entitled Israel needs time off suggesting that the advent of Sunday as a day off would reduce the stress in Israeli society. 

Is there an Anglo in Israel who has not said or thought the same thing?  

I even remember a few years ago when someone wanted to start a movement to get the Knesset to formally change the workweek so families could take Sundays off. Nothing happened.

The Post opinion piece mentioned all the usual advantages that people talk about when they talk about taking Sunday off:  time for families and recreation, leading perhaps to more Shabbat observance, a day for religious kids to sleep in and most important a time for personal solitude, to reflect and ponder and not as on Shabbat at the expense of time spent with family and community. The argument that many businesses already give their employees Fridays off doesn't cut it because, in most cases, the kids are still in school, and besides, a large percentage of the population needs to prepare for Shabbat on Friday afternoon so that long stretch of open-ended time Sunday is not on offer.

I've often thought that life's frantic pace here in Israel, particularly exhibited in the driving culture, is because we are all so stressed for time. With work and family obligations, errands and chores, it's difficult to eke out time for recreation, for personal reflection or for quality time with family or friends. So we shave off as many minutes as we can to rush home to be with our kids or spouses, to take care of that errand or to sneak in that exercise session or art class we need to stay sane. 

And the best place to save those precious minutes is to shave them off your travel time. So when the driver cuts in front of you or honks his horn when you pause at a green or yellow light he does it because he thinks you're taking time away from his kids, or friends. You're literally stealing what is a most precious commodity, his time.

With the advent of Sunday as a day off that may well change. That consistent leisure opportunity will afford us the time we need and want to spend doing the things we love to do with the people we love to do them with. That will free us to work more efficiently and for more hours during the weekday, increase productivity, reduce stress and live more balanced, more enjoyable lives.

It's obvious why observant Israelis, particularly those who hail from America or Europe where Sunday is a day off like this idea. But why has it not caught on with the intelligentsia, the elite of Israel society who run the country and make the laws? After all, they take their lead from the US or Europe, looking to those societies as models of advanced civilization. It seems to me they should favor a Sunday free initiative if for no other reason than because that is what Europe does.

So I continue to wait for some politician or other leadership type to make a run at changing the system of the workweek and for the record, I would be happy to get involved. But I don't know how the system works here. I don't understand how things get done or how things get changed. Heck, I can't even find a good carton of orange juice.

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1  |   Ben Waxman, Israel, Sunday May 31, 2009 Explain how everyone will make up the lost day of work without loosing wages and then the idea may become feasible. Until then, it is simply a pipe dream.
2  |   Morton Friedman Lanham, MD, Sunday May 31, 2009 As a retiree, I often say that I need to go back to work, so that I will have days off. Take the American example, many spend the entire weekend on active pursuits ... shopping, housework, sports. Monday it is back to work, and a 'day of rest'. Ergo, make Monday the 'day of rest' officially. Add Monday to the sabbath and Sunday.
3  |   Daniel Pinner, Kfar Tapuach, Israel, Sunday May 31, 2009 A wonderful idea. It would be appropriate to acknowledge that the first person to call for a Shabbat/Sunday weekend was Rabbi Meir Kahane (Hy"d), who already back in the 1980s understood all the advantages. Like so many of his ideas, this one, too, is becoming accepted by mainstream Israeli society - slowly, a generation too late, but accepted nonetheless. Those same people who, 20 years ago, rejected the two-day weekend and are today beginning to see the wisdom in the idea, will eventually agree with Rabbi Kahane's other ideas. Would that this will not happen too late...
4  |   Efi, Israel, Sunday May 31, 2009 The idea that Israel should take Sunday off is really just a nostalgic throwback by Anglo Israelis who miss certain aspects of their former lives in the Diaspora. For native Israelis, the idea is bizarre. Sunday in Israel, just another working day, as it is across the whole of the Middle East. To tell Israelis to take Sunday off would be like telling Americans or Brits to take Tuesdays off. It's random and alien. Friday is already fast becoming a no work day for most in Israel. The natural Israeli solution is to legislate Friday as a day off along with Saturday.
5  |   Happy Jew, Monday Jun 01, 2009 I was cut to a 4-day week and no longer work Sundays. It gives me both private time and errand time. It's great!!
6  |   Reizel UShopetobetheresoon, Monday Jun 01, 2009 Sunday is not a random choice. It is contiguous with the Shabbat making a two day vacation. The other option, Friday (the Muslim Sabbath), does not have as much potential to be a relaxing day for family activities because of the need to return early enough to finish Shabbat preparations and shower and cleanup from activities before candlelighting. Fridays off may actually end up increasing stress and tension as we try to fit everything in. Comments from any frum families who have had experience with Fridays off?
7  |   Ellen Shafner- RBS, Monday Jun 01, 2009 Fridays at our house are spent preparing for Shabbat. You cannot compare Fridays in Israel to Sundays in the west. As someone who made Aliyah from the US 11 years ago, I still miss my Sundays, whether it was to catch up on laundry, go to the mall or supermarket, or to spend the day with my family recreating. You can't experience that on a Friday when you know that at sundown all activity must stop. It's very limiting. I would prefer to work on Fridays until 2:00pm, just like I did in the US. I agree that having Sundays off would greatly reduce national stress. Seth, have you tried Pomerantz OJ?
8  |   Roz-USA, Monday Jun 01, 2009 You might be able to get Sunday off if schools ran longer the OTHER days of the week (not Friday, of course)as they do back in the States, except for boys who mostly have a half day of limudai Kodesh Sunday mornings. As far as work, the same would have to apply. Needless to say, hospitals, etc. must run their usual schedule, and ditto for retail establishments. For many professions, such as int'l banking, Sunday is an off day. I agree it would bring much needed sanity, and perhaps better Shabbat observance. If Sunday is instituted as a day off, then close all the stores on Shabbos!
9  |   Leah Urso, Israel, Monday Jun 01, 2009 I have Thursday and Friday off - I love it! I shop for Shabbat on Thursday and fit in some Torah classes as well. I wish everyone could have a four day work week, but this is probably not possible. How about Rosh Chodesh off? This would be in keeping with our Jewish state.
10  |   Gil J. Yashar, Monday Jun 01, 2009 In answer to number 1. I think that it could be feasible to replace an five day workweek, 8 hours a day (8-4) into a four day workweek, 10 hours a day(8-6). I would venture to bet that the time saved commuting and the prospect of an extra full day off may make 4 days of 8-5 more productive than 5 days of 8-4. If I ever start a successful business, I would definitely try the 4 day work-week.
11  |   Jan, Australia, Tuesday Jun 02, 2009 Be glad for Shabbat!! Don't the shops close? doesn't the road become quiet? Doesn't the pace slow? Where I live we supposedly have a weekend. Right! BUT for who?The service station attendants working the midnight friday shift in a 24 hr culture? The Hardware store worker getting up early sunday morning? For the supermarket worker packing the shelves on sunday night. For the engineer doing jobs in the office sunday afternoon. And the road is rarely quiet even at 6am sunday people are rushing somewhere...and It's not even a city here- yet. What a difference to my life to STOP work on Shabbat
12  |   Ben Waxman, Israel, Tuesday Jun 02, 2009 I don't know anyone who works 8 -4. I work a 43 hour week. That does not include lunch. This means that I work from 7:30 - 17:00. My travel time is about 90 minutes each way. I get home about 18:30. Adding two hours a day would mean I get home at 20:30. No thanks.
13  |   roochie-efrat, Thursday Jun 25, 2009 I love Sherri's blogs. they are the BEST thing about the Jerusalem Post!!!!!
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