My grandmother was Judaism

The last couple of weeks have been difficult. Difficult because my grandmother, the woman who not only loved me unconditionally since the day I was born but also instilled in me, and everyone she knew, her love for Judaism, passed away.

She was the matriarch of our family, and we all maintained specific religious traditions for her. The synagogue that my grandmother and grandfather belonged to in Columbus, Ohio became the synagogue of my family. We stayed at the synagogue not because we felt like it reflected who we were as Jews but because it was where my mother went when she was younger, and a community that my grandparents were so involved in. But now, what would happen? Without my grandmother, what would happen to the traditions of our religion?

The role of religion for the secular

I recently came back from Egypt. I had never been to a Muslim country before and I hate to say it but the images I'd seen on television had made me a bit nervous. After a couple days, the pictures from the Media disappeared and I no longer felt uncomfortable around men in traditional religious clothing or the one or two women on the street, hidden behind veils. With speakers on the sidewalks filling the streets with religious chants, I soon became accustomed to how the city sounded during time of prayer. I started to wonder if there were people living in Egypt whom, like me, felt torn between maintaining religious traditions and living the life they want? Are there people of my generation who want traditions to change?

Around this time, close after the New Year, the resolutions made beforehand tend to fade back into the routine of daily life. No matter if resolutions are met, the effort itself for things to change fills us with hope. Whatever the wish, the one ingredient for a New Year is change. It seems we always want to change something about the way we live. 

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Kate - Texas: I like reading your entries. I'm a Christian trying to reconnect as well. Even though we're both of different religions..I can identify with what you are going through. I really admire your sharing with the rest of the world. It is something so deeply personal between you and God. You will find your way. I slowly am finding mine. God Bless.
Avrohom - Israel: Actually, Robert Costa, you are an invention and an illusion. Do you always go out of your way trying to destroy others? Get a life.
robert costa, jerusalem: God is an invention and religion is an illusion and both added together evolve intolerance, conflicts, discrimination between "I am this and that" - "... but you are that and this", and of course wars, wars, wars. God is a childish neurosis, a return to childhood, but instead of asking your father who knew everything better than you, you pray like a pagan to god and waist your time and money. robert costa, Jerusalem